How I Became Your Mother

A Bronx Tale

Where you’re from shapes you, whether you realize it or not. And for me? The Bronx gave me pride, grit, and an unshakable sense of self. In this episode, I’m peeling back the layers of my upbringing—the fast-paced energy, the unspoken rules, and the lessons I picked up along the way. From taking the train alone at 12 to learning that boundaries are everything, I’ll share how my hometown made me who I am.
Some lessons I’m keeping: the importance of standing firm, taking up space, and believing in the impossible. But I’m also leaving behind the pressure to always be “too cool” and the emotional distance that survival sometimes required.
I’m grateful for the audacity this city gave me, for the way it protected my mindset, and for the sense of magic that still runs through my veins. And if there’s one thing I want you to know, it’s this—boundaries and connection aren’t opposites. They are necessary for the greater good.
Let’s talk about it. 🎧✨

C.O.G. I. K. (Part 2)

What happens when your understanding of God expands beyond the beliefs you were raised with? In this episode, I’m diving into how my faith has shifted—not in essence, but in awareness. I’ll unpack the questions that have shaped my journey, the urgency I still carry, and the peace I’ve found in seeing God as an ever-present energy rather than an external figure.
 
I’ll share what I’ve kept from my Christian upbringing, what I’ve released, and how I now experience spirituality as a deeply personal, creative process. Plus, we’ll talk about what I hope to pass down to you—because your relationship with God is yours to define.
 
Tap in for an honest, vulnerable, and maybe even freeing conversation.

The Millennial

Hey, Little Bit—welcome to the very first episode of How I Became Your Mother! Today, we’re diving into what it reallymeans to be a millennial, the lessons I’ve learned, and how I’m gearing up for what’s next. From AI to wellness, cutting out toxicity, and even watching the way I speak—this episode is all about evolution.
I’ll share stories on resilience, flexibility, and boundaries (because whew, we’ve been through some things). We’ll talk about what I’m keeping, what I’m leaving behind, and why being a millennial is honestly kind of lit. Plus, I’ll leave you with something I want you to believe—that your passions will always guide you if you learn how to manage your mind and emotions.
So, whether you’re here for the laughs, the lessons, or just a little company, I’m glad you made it. Let’s get into it. 💛

C.hurch O.f G.od I.n K.alilah

From Sunday mornings in church pews to silent meditations with the universe—my spiritual journey has been a trip. In this episode, I take you through my evolution from the Church of God in Christ to a deeper, more personal relationship with God—one that speaks many languages.
Little Bit, I want you to know that spirituality isn’t about rules; it’s about connection. Whether through gospel music, astrology, meditation, or gratitude, God is always speaking. You just have to listen.
Let’s get into it.

BLACK Kalilah

Being a Black woman is a gift—but it’s also a story we carry, shape, and redefine. In this episode, I dive into what I was raised to believe about my Blackness, what I’m choosing to keep, and what I’m leaving behind. From childhood moments to deep reflections, I explore how our ancestors paved the way, but how we have the power to write new narratives.
Little Bit, I want you to know that honoring your roots doesn’t mean reliving the pain—it means living free. Let’s get into it.

How This Became A Podcast (Intro)

Wow-it's finally here!!! I really published an ongoing public love letter to my future children. Y'all either gonna think I'm brilliant or nuts. Either way- This episodes gives context about where this idea came from as well as what I hope to get from cutting my heart open like this. Listen and enjoy the journey!